It can be difficult for someone to hear
that they did something wrong. However,
it’s even more difficult to build a
solid relationship when one partner is
purposely hindering communication. One
has to outweigh the other. You also have to take into
consideration that his pride is
probably a little hurt. You caught him
cheating on you. He probably
sincerely believes you don’t trust him.
Instead of giving you the benefit of
the doubt he’s going on the attack. If
you want to set things on a positive
track, your job is to assure him that
the trust you have for him still
remains.You’ll also need to get to the root of
the reason why he betrayed your trust.
That kind of disrespect doesn’t
belong in a relationship, and
shouldn’t just be overlooked. It is
possible this is a pattern of his, but
only time will tell.You’re really going to have to use your
intuition here. The fact that it is a
long distance relationship is going to
make that more difficult. If he’s
avoiding you, it could be a sign of his
real nature and is a serious indicator
of his communication style. To be
completely honest, I’d be less worried
about losing him than what life might
be like if he stays.